Just Asking For a Chance

Think of a group of people... a group that you don't understand at all. In your eyes, everything they do is rediculous. Why would they wear that? Why would they listen to that type of music? Why would they act that way? Why do they think the way they do? What do they do? I find it very interesting... I have heard each of these questions come from the mouths of another..but it usually goes like this. "Why in the hell does he do that? He is rediculous." Here is something to think about. Why do we ask the question, but never seek a true answer. When is the last time that you found the actions, thoughts, or words of another to be wrong or they just didn't seem to make much sense? Do you ask for an explanation, or do you just come up with your own.

I believe that there is a certain level of accomplishment in those who are willing to ask questions, and try to understand. I've had the opportunity to meet many people, and some of those opportunities are not always enjoyable. These are a few of the explanations or reasonings I get from people who do not agree with something.... 1. I am right, you are wrong - We all have different beliefs. I get frustrated when I hear people talk about how terrible it is that someone is of this religion or that religion or that they believe this or that. Wow. If you are a mormon, or catholic, or christian, or muslim...that is cool with me. Who I am and what I believe in are MY BELIEFS. I am happy to discuss them with you if you would like, but I will not force them upon you. 2. That is way not cool: A lot of people think that it has to be "cool" to be done. Get over it. If impressing others is your main concern, you are defintely not cool. 3. THAT'S ALL YOU HEAR ABOUT - Many people go off of the things they hear about. "Well, you read about it in the newspaper all the time". Sure, you read about lots of things in the newspaper all the time. Have you ever taken the time to learn some things on your own. I could go on forever. I guess I can only hope that someday, people will realize that we are all different, and that doesn't have to be such a bad thing. Most people are out there, everyday, living their lives the best they can, trying to make sure that they are happy. The next time you don't get it, ask someone. Don't come to a conclusion without being informed. You're not hurting anyone more than you are hurting yourself. Most people are just asking for a chance, and that's all.

What You Wish For

As each new person walks into my life, I always wonder what role that person will play. Will they be around for 3 days and never again, will they be there now and then for the rest of my life, or will the become important. As I travel and meet many people, it is a question I often ask myself. I meet people and some I hope that I will have an opportunity to someday get to know better...while others, I don't care much to see again. Others are fine, but nothing special. It's an interesting thought. Think about the first time you met your best friend, your girlfriend/boyfriend, worst enemy. Did you know then that things would be the way they are now? Not many people do.

The People In My Life

Two years ago, I was preparing to graduate from college. At that point I had no idea what I was going to do next. I defintely did not think I would be doing what I am doing now. Regardless, I am here and very happy to be here. One thing has crossed my mind since my return.

I have some of the best friends that any person could ask for, but I still only have 24 hours a day...some of which I should probably consider utilizing for sleep. My point is this: doing what I do, I 've come to realize how important the things you say and the things you do really are... while a telephone call may not last an hour, it still allows you to say hello. While lunch at McDonald's may not be spending the week together, it is taking time to hang out. I miss my friends and sometimes I worry that they do not know that. Without my friends, I would not be the person I am. THe people in my life keep me going. I may not say it regularly, but I do recognize it...and appreciate everyday that my friends are there for me.